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Familial Dystopia

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Image: Zauther, deviantart.com The women around me whom I first met as girls. They were brave and full of positivity. They were so much into beauty and the future. I even envied them. My parents had strong ideologies and limited aspirations. These girls seemed to be free from such overpowering paradigms. All these women, except a few, excelled in education. They got jobs and married. Their education and jobs ranked high in the marriage choices they were offered. During the first few years, the star-eyed couples went on vacations, built houses and had kids filling their homes with laughter.  Then they settled down like coffee shreds in a pot. The clear coffee poured from the pot but they did not.  The light went drab in their eyes. Their shoulders sagged and their gait changed.  Somewhere on the road they took, they entered a contract to serve the dystopia, family.     I see them withering away. They became obese, eating all the leftovers from the meals...

The Life of Women in India: Gender Chronicles: Part 1

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photo source: flickr.com Domesticated and Powerless These are sketches of the lives of Indian women, how their lives still are not their own and how they navigate the man’s world. Irrespective of religion, caste or regional differences, an average housewife in India wakes up very early and makes tea or coffee for the entire family first.  If she is a housewife, she must cook for the children and the adults in the family.  Husbands and other male adults in the family would be seen sipping their morning tea or coffee sitting in a chair on the front verandah and reading the newspaper in perfect reverie.  The wife never gets a chance to sit like that, relax, or read a newspaper, as the first thing in the morning.  She could be seen running around in the house, scolding children and being scolded by her husband.  The gender division is deep-rooted and woven into the fabric of domestic life.  It is so naturalised that no one finds anything odd about it. Often, ma...

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